Mary was truly chosen by God and used by Him to carry out His perfect plan. As mothers, we can learn a great deal by looking closely at how Mary responded when God called her to do something extraordinary. The Bible shows us several qualities in her life that are worth paying attention to.

Mary was favored by God—more than just favored, she was highly favored (Luke 1:28). Why would God look on her with such favor? Scripture gives us some important clues.

Mary lived a pure life. The Bible tells us she was a virgin, engaged to Joseph, and that she had not known a man (Luke 1:27, 34). She honored God with both her body and her mind. This challenges us to ask whether we are guarding our own hearts and lives with the same care.

Mary rejoiced that God was her Savior. She didn’t just accept God’s plan—she celebrated it. In Luke 1:47, she praises God for saving her. Can we find joy simply in knowing that Jesus is our Savior?

Mary was thoughtful and reflective. When the angel spoke to her, she didn’t react carelessly or speak without thinking. She took time to consider what God was doing (Luke 1:29). Later, she quietly treasured and reflected on the things she witnessed in her heart (Luke 2:19). Instead of talking everything through with everyone, Mary took time to think deeply about God’s work. Do we do the same?

Mary focused on honoring God. In her song of praise, she said, “My soul magnifies the Lord” (Luke 1:46). She made God bigger in her life, not her problems. This reminds us to ask whether we spend more time talking about our troubles than praising God.

Mary saw herself as God’s servant. When she said, “Be it unto me according to thy word” (Luke 1:38), she was willingly placing herself in God’s hands. She was ready to serve, even when it wasn’t easy. In our homes and daily lives, do we see ourselves as serving the Lord in the same way?

Mary carefully guarded what she allowed into her heart. When others heard the shepherds’ words and were amazed, Mary quietly held onto those things and reflected on them (Luke 2:18–19). Later, even when she didn’t fully understand what Jesus said, she kept His words in her heart (Luke 2:50–51). This makes us consider what kinds of thoughts and messages we are holding onto.

Mary was obedient. Each year, she and Joseph traveled a long distance—about 120 miles—to Jerusalem to observe Passover (Luke 2:41–42). Obedience to God required effort and sacrifice. It still does. Are we willing to obey God even when it costs us time, comfort, or convenience?

Mary feared the Lord. She understood that God’s mercy rests on those who honor and respect Him (Luke 1:50). This kind of fear isn’t about being afraid—it’s about reverence and trust. Do we live with that kind of respect for God, or do our fears control us instead?

Mary showed wisdom. At the wedding in Cana, when the wine ran out, she brought the problem to Jesus and then told the servants to do whatever He said (John 2:3–5). She trusted His judgment and pointed others to Him. How often do we encourage people to listen to Jesus and follow His instructions?

Mary was devoted to prayer. After Jesus’ resurrection, she gathered with other believers and prayed faithfully with them (Acts 1:14). She understood the importance of prayer and unity. Do we have people we pray with regularly and faithfully?

Mary was honored by Jesus. Even while suffering on the cross, Jesus made sure His mother was cared for (John 19:25–27). In His final moments, He showed love, respect, and responsibility toward her. This reminds us of the importance of honoring our own mothers—and all those who faithfully do God’s will (Matthew 12:50).

Mary herself said that all generations would call her blessed (Luke 1:48). As mothers, may we strive to live in a way that reflects the same faith, humility, and devotion to God that made Mary such a powerful example.